Sunday, June 15, 2014
Ed Fisher, lovingly called 'Pops', has forever changed my definition of "father." A father loves you through all your mistakes and missteps. That's Ed Fisher's way. A father loves being with you and makes you feel as if you are the only one in the room, as if what you have to say and what you think matters. That's Ed Fisher's way. A father is a provider not just monetarily but one who gives of his time and a listening ear, a funny story and free "I love you's" each and every time you come and go. He is a man whom you worship, and one you idolize. His mind is occupied by God's word and the immense love he has for his family. He doesn't look outward for glory and laudation, for his family is enough...is more than enough...and you know that by the look of pride he has for each and every member. That's Ed Fisher's way. Ed is a father that is never out of reach. He's there, with a warm hug and without judgment or scoff. He'll sit on the couch and sing you his favorite hymns just as easily as he'll sit under the dining room table to play hide and seek with his grandchildren. That's Ed Fisher's way.
Always the quintessential father, you never have to worry about falling from his good graces, as the word "rejection" just isn't in his vocabulary. You don't have to act or look or speak or think a certain way. You don't have to be talented or pretty or handsome or ugly or broken or sad. You don't HAVE to be anything. He loves us without conditions. He loves us despites our not's and no's and nothings. He loves because that is what a father--a true and real and consummate father--does. He loves. And no matter where I am, no matter what mistakes I have made, no matter where I go even if I trip and fall on my way, I can count on this father's steady, unwavering love. This dad's love anchors me to Earth and let's me rise above it as well. This father's love give me strength and an unending need to be as good as he makes me feel. I love you, Pops. I am a teacher, a writer, a thinker, and a seeker. I am your son's wife and your granddaughter's mother, but one of the titles that I am most proud of, most fortunate to have bestowed upon me is that of Ed Fisher's daughter-in-law, Ed Fisher's daughter. I thank you, dear father-in-law, dear father, for loving me like I was worth it.