tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6998642513449094998.post4743643711931277857..comments2023-11-30T04:43:54.844-05:00Comments on A Muddled Mother: We Are Not What We've Learned. We Are What We KnowAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00067535681616087770noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6998642513449094998.post-255467517798765752012-10-23T23:36:05.691-04:002012-10-23T23:36:05.691-04:00How true! No one can change us but ourselves.
New...How true! No one can change us but ourselves.<br /><br />New follower!Veronica Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14411581380408080378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6998642513449094998.post-58624658810203956412012-10-23T15:25:38.433-04:002012-10-23T15:25:38.433-04:00My dear Lost, like you when I learned that the des...My dear Lost, like you when I learned that the destructive practices I learned as a child were not healthy and would keep me from success, I too floundered. After all we are simply products of the role models we have as children. But once I realized that I needed to let go of those erroneous characteristics I floundered. Now what do I do. In a way I felt emptier than before. But I assure you with the help of good therapy you learn different and better ways to run your life so that you don't have to repeat the mistakes if our parents. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00067535681616087770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6998642513449094998.post-8137921705534695322012-10-23T14:48:59.935-04:002012-10-23T14:48:59.935-04:00That is really amazing that he was able to identif...That is really amazing that he was able to identify what needed to change and make active steps towards changing. Its something everyone struggles to do at any age. <br /><br />I have this fear. That if I truly change the things in me (from my past) that are self-destructive I won't know myself anymore. I know it seems strange, but I've always been this way. I can't imagine a world in which I'm secure and not constantly needing and feeding off the affirmation of others. I don't know what that would even be like. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com